May 27, 2009

Beach Bums

Four great days in Charleston with some of my favorite people, decent weather, 2 agreeable little travelers, and the beach made for a great memorial day and some lots of great photo ops of two sweet little boys...



And just for fun, here's Cort in the same swimsuit and hat ...he was 6 months old in this picture( Cohen is almost 14.5 months) :)




Back to the present....

proud of his shells...

Cort with cousin, Nicolas( we were able to spend time with Chris sister on Friday and at the beach on Sat. too)


Love this series of Cort splashing in the tidal pool... this is actually WAY narrowed down!!






Cohen loved the beach!! He was a big fan of the sand...

cute little piggies






Cort had to build his own tidal pools( from Max and Ruby if you know that cartoon) He built one for Cohen and one for himself.


Cohen absolutely adoring Stabler!!!

Me and Kelly( one of my best friends and college roomies) outside of the Chic-fil-a that took them away to Charleston in the first place!!! It was GREAT to spend time with them in their new home in Charleston. Big thanks to them opening their home to all of us for the weekend. Miss her already.


It was a very full weekend. We were able to see lots of friends and family along the way. In Columbia on our way down, we visited with my grandparents, parents, Chris' cousin who was in town from Florida. In Charleston we spent time with Chris' sister, Kelly and John, and several old college friends who were in town for one of our friend's ordination services( which we were so happy that Chris got to go to). It was all a ton of fun and even though Cort had an ear infection and Cohen came back with an ear infection and sinus infection, the boys did great!!!

May 26, 2009

If you would...

..please pray for Chris' family. His grandfather is very ill. The doctor's are giving a prognosis of about 2 weeks unless he has surgery. The surgery carries a high risk that he will not pull through it or that if he does, he will develop pneumonia and not recover. They have some very big decisions to make tonight.

Please pray for his grandmother as she deals with such deep grief and for the rest of the family( he has 5 sons) as they deal with all of this.

May 18, 2009

Curl

I know you probably wouldn't beleive it if i didn't give you a picture but Cohen's hair is seriously curly....



Don't see it? Look again....





It's really only curls in the back but boy does it curl. Though many days, it's just a big ball of frizz!! This straight - haired girl doesn't quite know what to do with curly hair! I love his curls and keep putting off getting his haircut bc i don't want to cut them off!!! I guess at some point visual impairment will be a big enough motivator and I'll have to cut it.


* Still don't know when the MRI will be. ( See post below if you missed the medical update)

May 16, 2009

Medical Overload

Cohen had 3 appointments this week.... his second EEG, hearing test, and ENT appointment. The update is long - sorry, I just really like to get it all down for my record keeping and "scrapbooking" purposes. Some of this is from appointments a while back that I never got to record.


He passed his hearing test. Big praises. It's hard to get a definite result on a 14 month old so they just classify them in the top, middle, or bottom third. Cohen did great and was in the top 3rd for hearing. We weren't really suspecting hearing loss but he had the test for 2 reasons - first, just because he's had a lot of ear infections, has tubes, and isn't talking yet. Second, just for a baseline, as hearing issues can be common for people with dwarfism.

His ENT appointment went fine. His tube has fallen out in his left ear but we were expecting this because in March it looked like it was about to fall out. He has no fluid in his ear so we'll sort of wait and see as far as replacing the tube goes.

His EEG on Wednesday went fine again as far as how well he handled it. We were even able to go to therapy first and then go straight there and he was such a little trooper still. Again, we didn't see the activity that concerned us during the EEG. I wasn't too frustrated by this because I wasn't expecting to see it since he hasn't been doing it very often right now. ( which is great!!) But it doesn't give us much in the way of answers. Yesterday, I spoke with my pediatrician and she and I decided to go ahead and get the ball rolling on scheduling an MRI. It's really something we would have liked to waited on until he got a little bigger but something that really needs to be done for lots of kids with dwarfism and with the issues we're currently having we just feel like it's time to be more proactive instead of reactive. The MRI will be for his head, neck, and spine. The biggest thing we're interested in other than seeing if we see anything causing the odd behavior we've seen, his cervical spine. I was a little nervous to request the MRI because sedation is a big risk for Cohen. But later that day, the neurologist called, confirmed what I expected that the EEG didn't show anything again, and then said he wanted to do an MRI to check his head and cervical spine. Sedation is still a big risk but now I don't' feel as much like I'm the only one thinking it needs to be done. We don't have a date yet for the MRI and in the meantime, I'm busy making sure all the safeguards we'll need for him will be in place.

We're in sort of an interesting crossroads with Cohen's medical care. We have some great doctors here, and individually they all take great care of Cohen. However, dwarfism, in and of itself is not super common, and Cohen's purposed type of dwarfism is not something any doctor in the US has ever dealt with. So far, we've accepted Cohen's medical care based on the little everyone knows about what is "suppose to be" with Odontochondrodysplasia. But now that he's gotten older and we aren't just trying to make sure he can breath, we're getting to a place of feeling like we need a little more. Also, Cohen's diagnosis can't be confirmed so we aren't always super comfortable treating him with the assumption that his diagnosis is definitely correct.

In March, we had a slew of appointments for Cohen.... ENT, 1 year check up, developmental peds, pulmonologist, orthopedic at Shriner's, and geneticist. While Cohen checked out relatively well in most of these appointments, overall we feel like there are some holes we'd like filed in. Not, because any certain doctor isn't doing a good job, but just because it's SOO many different doctors and none of them are experts in dwarfism. So, in March, we requested that our geneticist refer him to Alferd I. Dupont Institute in Delaware and that we make it a goal for him to be seen there sometime within the year. Just to get a better overall picture, from somewhere that has expertise in dwarfism. He was totally on board with it. With all that's going on, we now plan to try to make that happen sooner rather than later. I 'd also like to do it while we're out of RSV season and all. ( Love that those monthly shots are done, by the way - at least till next fall!) We've so far been doing a little bit more of a wait and see approach and are just feeling the need, like I said earlier, to be a bit more proactive then just reactive.

Of course, all of this has to be balanced between being wise and responsible but also trusting God with it all in the end. I saw a quote this morning that said, "Christianity isn't about being a pessimistic or an optimist but rather being a realist who has confidence in God." We are trying to make sure that Cohen receives the medical care he needs but at the same time not be consumed and overwhelmed with worrying over it all too much or all the time.

In the midst of taking care of Cohen's medical needs, life happens. And we so enjoy that life with him and Cort. We don't ever want to feel like we let the "issues" outweigh the enjoyment of life with him. He's such a happy little boy and a blessing to our family and we couldn't be more proud of how far he's come or how great he's doing. Our attempts to make sure that Cohen receives the medical care he needs and the therapy he needs to help with his development, is secondary to the love and life we share with him.



For more documentation purposes on some appointments that I never got to record:

At his pumonologist, they were really thrilled with how well his lungs are doing. Praise God!! We had been noticing a pattern of a night time cough so they sent us with some nebulizer mouth pieces ( we already have a nebulizer for Cort) to try when that happens and if it gets worse then might have to do some reactive airway disease medications. We will also probably do a sleep study at some point. Since, that appointment, we haven't had to use the nebulizer!! YEA!!!

His developmental pediatrician did an evaluation on him at his one year check in March. At that time he had age equivalents of 6 months for physical, 10 mos. for language, 12 mos. social and emotional, and 8 mos. for cognitive. These were all about what I was expecting and have seen progress since then with all of these areas. We see them again between 15 and 16 mos. We are switching nurse practitioners there just because they feel like what is a little more knowledgeable with some of Cohen's medical issues.

I also requested a speech eval and so we have that on May 26.

We will being seeing his eye doctor for a follow up in June and probably his cardiologist just to make sure that his labored breathing hasn't put any strain on his heart.

His Shriner's appt. went fine and we plan on going back at 18 mos. to do xrays again. We're going to be really interested in seeing what sort of orthopedic info we get up in Delaware if and when we go. Shriner's, by the way, is a great Hospital here in Greenville, that serves patients orthopedically for free and there is a risk of it being shut down due to the economy. The final vote will be in July as to if it stays open or not. It is such a blessing to SOOO many people in this region. Please pray that it doesn't close.


Okay - done with all the overload of medical information.

May 12, 2009

The story of two boys...

Two sweet boys playing on the chair with a blanket.

One sweet boy plays peek a boo with the blanket....


Other sweet boy wants the blanket... "Please, please, can I have that blanket?"

"Oh, goody, goody, I'm getting the blanket! I'm getting the blanket!!!"

"I don't want the blanket! I don't want the blanket!!"

Kiss it, make it better...

All better. " I told you I didn't want that silly blanket."



Cohen's EEG is tomorrow. Please pray they are able to catch the activity on it so we can get some answers! We really appreciate it.

More new pictures below if you're interested!

What've we've been up to this spring....

Building the swingset with Daddy
Enjoying the swingset....



Pulling out the pool on the first really warm day.....



Cohen finally "warming" up to the cold water....



Frequent local park playdates with good friends....
Enjoying every minute of it!!

Emotions according to Cort

Happy




Surprised

Sad

mad
Mad take 2

Scared
scary

Not sure..... :)