Dec 8, 2009

It's time to be a turkey...

That's the first line in a poem Cort learned at school that he repeated continously over Thanksgiving! HIs school had a thanksgiving feast and I was able to go in to help the boys cook. My good friend, Kelly, happened to be in town and spent the morning with Cohen for me( double bonus that she stayed the whole rest of the day to hang out with me!!)



Cort's class dressed up like Native Americans and the other 3K class dressed up like pimgrams( cort kept calling them mayflowers!!)

Cort sported his costume throughout the week at home!!

We hosted our first thanksgiving this year and loved it!! My parents, grandmother, and brother came up. It was the first holiday since my Paw-Paw passed away and I just thought it would be good to do something a little different. It was weird to not have him here but we were thankful for our time with family and knowing he was having a much greater day then just eating some turkey!!! I cooked a turkey for the second time ever and it went pretty well, i think. We did dinner instead of lunch and it was nice to just leisurely fix things through out the day. Our menu included, turkey, crock pot macaroni and cheese( my favorite!!), sweet potato casserole, green beans, butter beans, cornbread dressing, homemade cranberry sauce, and yeast rolls. Cort was excited to have everyone come and helped me make several decorations and treats for the day!!

Our little centerpiece...

turkey napkin rings

yummy tukeys...



It was a beautiful day and we were able to get some play time in while the food simmered...


i love this one...

We cranked the heat up but my Me- Maw was still cold( as always!!)..

Cohen playing with Uncle Ryan and a favorite little puppy, named Stabler( yes, Alison, we still call him that!!)


We had a full house for night time sleep but it all went pretty well. Cort went to sleep in Cohen's room and in the middle of the night, Chris ended up in there and Cort ended up in bed with me!! I didn't mind too much - gotta get the snuggles where you can!!

My family hung around the next day and we even started getting Christmas stuff down. We're always out of town the whole weekend of thanksgiving so we never get to decorate that early. I enjoyed that!!

We even went and got our tree that Saturday. Post to come. :)

I can't even begin to put into words how thankful we are for some many things!! I still can't believe it sometimes when I realize we're celebrating our 2nd round of holidays with BOTH our sweet boys!!


In case your curious...

It's time to be a turkey, wobble, wobble, wobble!
It's time to be a turkey, gobble, gobble, gobble!
It's thanksgiving day, and that's no fun!
It's time to be a turkey who can run, run ,run, run, run!!

Nov 24, 2009

A. I . Dupont - Seeing Specialists


Okay, So I'm finally getting around to posting about our trip to Delaware. I can't say that we really knew what to expect both from the long travels with a one and a half year old( isn't that crazy?) and from the doctors but we were excited to go and thankful for the opportunity.

I need to share a bit of background that I haven't made public on the blog yet. We booked these appointments back when Cohen had just turned one and were operating on the diagnosis of odontochondrodysplasia simply because we wanted to see doctors who had experience with skeletal dysplasia to make sure that we weren't missing something crucial in our medical care with Cohen. This summer we amazingly got word that the geneticist in Germany had found and isolated the gene/mutation for odontochondrodysplasia (something we didn't expect any time in the near future if at all!!) and that they could NOT find the mutation in Cohen's DNA. This didn't come as a total surprise to us....we were never 100% sure of the diagnosis and his four pearly white teeth weren't quite fitting the odonto part as "nicely" as they thought they would.

How did we feel about not having a specific classification? Well, like I said, not surprised. Not really all that bothered...I care about it simply for information in caring for him, not for something to call it....we just call him Cohen. I won't say it isn't hard to not have some type of "map" and I do worry that we aren't aware of something that we need to be but we're doing our best to check everything out and trusting God with it all.

In Delaware, we saw an orthopedic doctor and a geneticist. There was also a doctor there from Brazil( who happened to be a LP too) who came to all our appointments with us. So it was great to get another opinion too! The orthopedic doctor took new xrays and even did some in positions that we hadn't had done yet. The two main things we learned from this appointment that was a little different than what we went in knowing was that his back is not all curved as far as his spine and bones are concerned and then curving we see when he sits is just positional and more muscle tone issues. This was great news both to just know and to know not to allow for any bracing right now. Second, was that he didn't feel like there was any need for bracing or surgeries anywhere anytime soon - this wasn't necessarily really different from what we were being told here but there had been some talk of it for the near future. He said that he saw no reason structurally for Cohen not to walk without interventions once he's ready. As far as bracing and surgeries in the future, we just have to wait and see. They were surprised at his small chest size and we did talk some about his restriction. They said it was smaller in person than they were expecting based on xrays.

The most surprising thing to us was about how is femur is actually bowed. Due to proper positioning in xrays, they told us that his femur is actually bowed backwards( the curve goes to the back of his leg). This was really interesting to them because they said they have personally never seen a child with bowing in that direction( leave it to Cohen, right?)

In talking with our geneticist and after a very thorough history and examination, we got down to the business of medical care and diagnosis( or rather, classification).

I'll try to make this as succinct as possible and if anyone has more questions feel free to shoot me an email!! So, there are hundreds of types of skeletal dysplaisas..under that there are categories mainly based on what parts of the skeletal system is effected...and then within those categories there are specific classifications( ie. achondroplaysia, odontochondrodysplasia, etc..). Odontochondrodyplasia is in the SMD category. This means that the spine, metaphysis(end of the bones) and diaphysis(long part of the bone) is effected. Well, the doctors there feel like Cohen has a SEMD type. Where all of the above are effected and so are the epiphyses( the bone above the growth plate). He feels like Cohen's are actually enlarged. Epiphyses aren't ossified at birth so this isn't something they would have seen at birth.

So what does all that mean? They are fairly certain that Cohen does not have any type of dwarfism that has already been classified. Again, not really a shocker to us!! They will review other cases they have info on and see if they can find anything that matches up in places but that's not something that will most likely happen. This info. does at least give us a new starting place and at least some direction in figuring things out for Cohen medically. I haven't done as much research as I plan to on the types of dwarfism that fall into this category yet.

As far as medical treatment goes, we were pleased that really we had done all the testing and surveillance that we needed to so far. There were two things that he wanted further information on and we're working on( though I'm not having as much luck as quickly as I'd like) getting those things up there. He wants to see his MRI and sleep study in full to check for neck stability issues. Even thought this is why we did the MRI and it came back clear ( as do his xrays) he said that central sleep apnea can be the only symptom and since Cohen is having some, he wants to see how mild is and just look at everything with his own trained eye.
He also wants us to watch his hearing and vision a little more closely due to collagen issues( this is common). We already see the eye doctor regularly enough but need to do hearing checks more often. We see the ENT in a few weeks so we'll get that set up. They also concurred that odd behavior we have been concerned might be seizures could just be his reflux. He was also able to tell us of some doctors that after one more clear check, we can discontinue!! ( woo, hoo!!!)



A little bit more info for fellow LP parents if your interested....

Cohen has more pronounced mesomelia shortening in his arms and rhizo in his legs. His feet and hands are much more typical size that than his arms and legs and his toes and fingers are very long. His head is little bit larger in percentiles than his weight and length but not by much. He is only about 25 inches long(maybe only 24.5) at 20 months old and weighs about 14.5 lbs. His skin is softer than typical for his age. There is some debate about his facial structure but overall he is considered to have "normal" face structure. He sits, rolls over, scoots backwards on his belly, turns while sitting, and stands supported at a toy or funiture, etc. He has normal range kyphosis and a little underdeveloped lordosis(in both places)


We will continue to follow up with the doctors there. Most likely, we'll go yearly(ish) and communicate with them about what's going on with our doctors here in the meantime.

We didn't go expecting all the answers and are very satisfied with our visit. They were so thorough both in exam and in explaining things to us. And while, our doctors here really have been great, it was so nice to feel very confident in things we were being told and in getting confirmation that we're doing the right things.


We had a good trip as far as travels go. We stopped part way going and coming in Raleigh, NC and visited with family on the way up( getting to see Chris' sister new house) and friends( who are back in the US after living in Singapore for two years) on the way back.

Cohen actually slept in the car everytime we drove - this was a HUGE praise as he never naps in the car.
We were able to stay at the Ronald McDonald House for our stay, which was another HUGE blessing both financially and just because it was a really great experience.



We met some new friends, Matt and Ashley, who follow our blog but that are also family of some friends of ours. We all went to the same college as well and we had at least met Matt briefly in college. We arrived in Delaware to a nice homecooked meal. It was really nice to do something social up there in an unfamiliar place and it was such a pleasure to meet them. Thanks Matt and Ashley!!

We also, with some more help and guidance from Matt(thanks again), went into Philadelphia for a few hours one afternoon and did a quick run through of all the historical stuff in liberty square.


Nov 15, 2009

Where we've been....

Hi! We haven't disappeared! But we've been busy. We returned from a week long trip to Delaware one week ago today and I have no idea where that week went( unless you count unpacking, dr. appointments, therapy, preschool, meetings, cleaning, cooking, you know..the usual!!:))

We went to Delaware to Alfred I Dupont to see a geneticist and orthopedic doctor with experience in Dwarfism( Dr. Bober and Dr. MacKenzie). It was a great trip and just what we were hoping for. I will get an update up about that and all we learned but first I want to catch up on a few things that took place before we left.

I hate getting this behind on the blog...it makes me miss documenting important moments to me...like the two year mark from our 20 week ultrasound with Cohen, infant and pregnancy lost day(when I remembered and prayed for so many sweet mothers that I missed), dwarfism awareness, and all the little fun things that happen with my boys on a daily basis. I keep thinking I'll catch up, get back in the rhythm and actually write about all the things floating around in my head....maybe I will one day...maybe I need to let it go a little....

either way...here's a few pics and events I wanted to get down of the boys....

Cort started 3K this year at a church nearby. It's the same place he's been doing MDO once a week for the past two years. He goes just twice a week and he really likes it.
I got to go to the Pumpkin Pizza Party in his class the week before Halloween. I was in charge of making the game!! The kids had fun and it was neat to get to see him in that element. I didn't get a lot of pics but here's a few...





The weekend before Halloween, we went to Columbia to celebrate Chris' Granddad's 90th birthday party!! It's been a long year for him with lots of medical ups and downs so we were all especially thrilled to celebrate this great milestone with him!!

Our niece, Lilah,


Cousins at play...



And finally, trick or treating!! We walked around this year with a few neighbors. The kids had a lot of fun even though we got caught in a big down pour!! We took refuge in a neighbors house( thanks, Katie!!) and Chris ran to get the car. Cort had a blast handing out candy to the kids braving the rain. He would open the glass door and yell, "hey, our lights on and we have candy!" at all the kids walking by. Too cute.






Nov 5, 2009

Coffee For EJ

A while back I posted about a sweet family we know through our church and how you could help them. I wrote about it here. Well, EJ has made it Remuda Ranch to receive treatment for her eating disorder. Praises all around!! I know the family is so thankful for the support and prayers from everyone to get here. There are still several ways I want to ask for your continued help...

1. Please Pray for EJ while she is there....that she would be open to treatment and that God would bless her time there with healing.

2. Pray for her family as they stay here, terribly missing their daughter, but knowing they are doing the right thing.

3. Pray for them as they are about to get to visit her for some time. Praise that they are able to do this!!

4. Praise that the program allowed them to come without the full tuition so far and Pray that they can raise the remainder of the money they need to pay for her stay. If you feel led, you can donate here, and I want to tell you about their newest fundraising endeavor...

A local, coffee shop, Liquid Highway, has been so generous to partner with them and sell EJ labeled coffee. I'm not a coffee drinker but from what I hear, it's great coffee. The bags are $10 and EJ's family gets $5 from each sale!!! It's a win/win...you get great coffee, and this family gets the help they need and I think, deserve!!

It's only a local drive as it's too expensive to do the shipping but if you are in the area you can contact me( email in profile) to find out how to get some coffee,check out their website by clicking on her sidebar, or starting this Friday, for the next 4 weeks, you can pick it up at Liquid Highway on E. North Street from 7:30-9:30am!!

We've seen first hand how amazing and necessary your local community support is as you go through great struggles. To see people come together to love on each other is so beautiful!! And it was truly amazing for us to feel God's love and a body of believers surround us. I am so thankful for them to have that too!! This family has been so humble and grateful as they have reached out to their local community and allowed us to come along side them in this journey. And while they have never asked me to blog about this, I just couldn't help from wanting to share the great update and ask for your prayers!!We are blessed to know them and we're all rooting for EJ.


Oct 27, 2009

Forward Motion....and more fall fun!!!

Cohen has been scooting backwards on his belly for a little while now and we've been trying to catch it on tape because he looks so cute - almost like he's doing the worm or some break dancing move. He's pretty fast at it but it really makes him mad because he wants to be moving forward. Well, we caught it on tape plus a little bit more..Can you believe that we actually caught on camera, his first time SCOOTING FORWARD!!! It's a bit more of a snow plow then an army crawl but we'll take it. He keeps his face down on the ground the whole time and I have NEVER wanted new, clean carpet more than I do right now!!! He's done it a few more time and hopefully will get that head up and use it more often soon!! The video is a little long but hang in there...we're so proud of him!!!




There are two more adorable( in my totally unbiased opinion) videos at the end.. can you tell we got a new video camera? ")

We've typically gone to Boo at the Zoo every year. The member night got canceled due to rain, on our one other free night we were all still a bit under the weather and we didn't have another free night to go so we improvised. We set up our own Boo In the Zoo with animals all around with treats for the boys. We made good use of our millions of animals and even had a reptile house!! It wasn't nearly as exciting but the boys both loved it. In fact, we played "boo at the zoo" a million times over and over and over( you get the point) again!!

Waiting in the bonus room for the Zoo to open...








One of Cort's favorite Halloween hobbies...lining up and counting his candy!!


There's a pavilion here complete with a little train. We sort of forget about it and don't go very often but we did, rather last minute, remember about their Enchanted forest night and squeeze in yet another fall activity!! It was really cute...they had games, costume contests, a petting zoo, bounce houses, a fairy tale character trail to get treats, and a "spooky"( i use that term very loosely) train ride. It was fun!!





riding the train...






This one is from our church's trunk or treat, where this is basically the only picture i got to take because I was busy with two demanding little ones and blowing up balloons!! It's one of my favorite events of the year though..so fun for everyone to come out together!! And this is one cute little puppy, if I do say so myself..





Every year since we've had kids, the whole pumpkin carving festivity has been a bit overrated. We always think it's going to be a ton of fun but somehow it has always been riddled with little time, fussy kids, and just one big mess!! Well, this year, pumpkin carving tried to inch it's way into our life as one of our favorite fall activities!! Cort was super excited and let his imagination run wild with it all and was quite the little pumpkin goo( our families official word for it) scooping worker bee, and Cohen, while at first seemed uninterested put on quite a display for his love of messy things and being silly!! Plus we had to pay a little Disney tribute!!!




The still shot of Cohen enjoying the pumpkin goo( see video at the bottom for live action - notice we threw more towels down in the video!!))

Cort making his own pumpkin seed concoction( see video below)

Trying to get Daddy to eat the above concoction, complete pumpkin seeds, water, apples, M&M's, bread, and grapes all "cooked" in the oven( not actually turned on:))...trying is the key word here.




Cohen enjoying the pumpkin goo...this is one small glimpse of his love for pumpkin goo



Cort cooking his delicious dish!!